Chapter Two · Thomas & Mary Rebecca Robens

Aunty Alice

Martha (Alice) Robens

1874–1962

The eldest daughter. She never married, and for thirty years she kept house with whichever of her unmarried sisters was beside her — and every Christmas, they waited to see whether Ivy would come down from Queensland.

Martha Alice Robens, from the photograph of the seven Robens daughters
Born
10 December 1874 · Sydney
Died
26 August 1962 · registered at Burwood
Trade
Home duties
Lived
88 years

Born in Sydney on 10 December 1874, registration 274/1874 — the second child and eldest daughter of the twelve.1 Within the family she was simply Alice, and it is as “Alice Martha”, her forenames transposed, that the Castle Hill rolls enter her year after year. That is worth knowing before searching an index for her.2

She never married. Neither did Rhoda Blanche, Ida May Charlotte or Stella Eva. Four unmarried daughters out of twelve children is a striking proportion, and for most of her adult life Alice kept house with one or another of them rather than alone — the households they made between them account for very nearly every address recorded against her name.

1926

Two Roods at Narrabeen

In 1926 Alice and her sister Ida bought adjoining blocks of land at Narrabeen, on the northern beaches. The Land Registry records each of them holding one rood — a quarter of an acre — Alice at Lot 29 and Ida at Lot 30, both in Section 5 of Deposited Plan 1818, Parish of Manly Cove, off Albert Street.3

Two unmarried women, one in her fifties and one in her forties, buying a quarter-acre each, side by side. What they intended is not known. No house has been traced on either block, and neither sister is ever recorded living at Narrabeen. A wider claim has attached itself to this land — that the sisters kept a house called “Glenroy” at Manly and later had it moved to the Narrabeen block. Half of that is now independently confirmed and half is not: “Glenroy”, Sydney Road, Manly, was certainly the family’s home, named twice over in their brother Norman’s war service papers and again in the notice of his wounding. That the house was ever moved to Narrabeen has no support at all, and is not carried here.3

1930–1946

A Household of Sisters

The earliest household the rolls give her is 8 O’Connell Street, Parramatta, shared with Ida.4 The year usually attached to it is 1930, and that cannot be right: the Bathurst roll of 1930 — dated on its own face — has Ida at 196 Keppel Street with their widowed mother and their sister Stella. Both cannot be true, and the Parramatta copy carries no year at all. The household is real; the date is not established, and probably belongs somewhere between 1930 and 1936.45

By 1936 the sisters were at Baulkham Hills, the district their parents had settled in. Alice was at Cross Street — the street in which her father had died eight years before — with Ida and their mother a short walk away at Railway Street.6 The arrangement held. In 1943 Alice was still at Cross Street, and Ida was sharing Railway Street with Rhoda instead; their mother had died the year before, and is simply absent from the page.7 By 1946 Alice and Ida had gone together to 338 Pittwater Road, Brookvale.8

In 1954 the household moved once more, to 28 Sheffield Street, Merrylands — the home of their married sister Vera, who had held it since at least 1930. The roll lists Alice and Rhoda there together, so whatever the arrangement was, it took in two sisters and not one.9

It is usually told as Vera taking her ageing sisters in. Vera’s husband died that March, and the roll cannot be dated within the year, so it reads at least as well the other way — two sisters going to a woman newly widowed after thirty-three years. Either way, by the end of 1954 three of the twelve were under one roof.9

Family recollection

The Christmas Ducks

Against all those addresses, one piece of family memory survives about these households, and it is worth more than any of them.

Aunty Alice & a couple of other aunts use to live in a big old house … with no electricity connected. (They didn’t need it.) Dad said he was often over there at Christmas and the Aunts would say “I wonder if Ivy will come down this Christmas” (She lived in Qld & nearly every Christmas hitch-hiked down) & sure enough she would turn up with a hessian bag over her shoulder with a couple of ducks’ heads sticking out. They would kill the ducks for Christmas dinner.
Family recollection — the source of this account is still to be traced

Which of the sisters’ several houses this describes has not been pinned down, and the recollection itself leaves the address blank. A shared household with no electricity connected would fit most of them. What it fixes is the shape of the thing: Alice and her sisters keeping one house between them, the wider family arriving each December, and Ivy coming down the coast with the dinner over her shoulder.10

That habit of hitch-hiking is the one that killed Ivy. In February 1955 she set out north on the same kind of journey and was killed on the road near Gundagai. Alice outlived her by seven years.

1962

The Death Notice

Alice died on 26 August 1962, aged eighty-eight, the death registered at Burwood under 25014/1962.11 The Herald carried the notice the next morning, and it names the survivors: Archie, Rhoda, Will and Violet.12 Four names, out of twelve children. She was buried at Rookwood.13

The date is worth stating plainly, because it has been given wrongly. A summary record of the Ancestry kind offers only “June 1962”, and that imprecise reading had found its way into this account and stood here until the registration itself was checked.11

A family photograph dated in the family to 1962 or 1963 shows Archie and Will in a garden with four of their sisters — Stella, Alice, Rhoda and Violet. If that identification holds, the year is settled by this death: Alice was gone by the end of August 1962, so the gathering belongs to the first eight months of that year. The photograph is reproduced with Stella’s account below.

The Record

Sources & References

  1. 1

    Birth registration

    NSW BDM index, Martha Alice Robens, 1874, Sydney, reg. no. 274; father Thomas Robens.

  2. 2

    The transposed forenames

    Commonwealth Electoral Rolls, Subdivision of Castle Hill, 1933–1937 — entered throughout as “Alice Martha”, the forenames reversed against her registration.

  3. 3

    The Narrabeen land, 1926

    NSW Land Registry Services, Historical Land Records Viewer — Martha Alice Robens, 1 rood, Lot 29, Section 5, DP 1818, Parish of Manly Cove (Vol./Fol. 510,358, 1926, 125); Ida May Charlotte Robens, 1 rood, Lot 30, same section and plan (Vol./Fol. 510,359, 1926, 126). The associated claim that a house called “Glenroy” was moved from Manly to this land is unverified. “Glenroy” itself is confirmed as the family home at Sydney Road, Manly, by Norman Sidney Robens’s AIF attestation of 1916 and by the 1918 notice of his wounding.

  4. 4

    O’Connell Street, Parramatta

    Commonwealth Electoral Roll, Subdivision of Parramatta, entries 2253–2254 — 8 O’Connell Street, Martha Alice and Ida May Charlotte. The copy held carries no year; it has been read as 1930, which conflicts with the dated Bathurst roll of that year.

  5. 5

    Bathurst, 1930

    Commonwealth Electoral Roll, 1930, Division of Macquarie, Subdivision of Bathurst, p. 89, entries 5302–5305 — 196 Keppel Street: Ida Mary Charlotte, Mary Rebecca Jane and Stella Eva Robens; 191 Lort Street: William Wesley Robens, saddler.

  6. 6

    Castle Hill, 1936

    Commonwealth Electoral Roll, 1936, Subdivision of Castle Hill, entries 2690–2692 — Cross Street and Railway Street, Baulkham Hills.

  7. 7

    Castle Hill, 1943

    Commonwealth Electoral Roll, 1943, Subdivision of Castle Hill, entries 2822–2824 — Cross Street and Railway Street, Baulkham Hills; their mother absent, consistent with her death in 1942.

  8. 8

    Brookvale, 1946

    Commonwealth Electoral Roll, 1946, Division of Warringah, Subdivision of Manly, entries 7659–7660 — 338 Pittwater Road, Brookvale.

  9. 9

    Merrylands, 1954

    Commonwealth Electoral Roll, 1954, Subdivision of Merrylands, entries 6230–6231 — 28 Sheffield Street, the home of Vera Annie Grieve; Martha Alice and Rhoda Blanche both listed.

  10. 10

    The Christmas ducks

    Family oral history account, recorded second-hand from a family member’s father. The house is not named in the account and the original source has still to be traced and cited properly.

  11. 11

    Death registration

    NSW BDM, death of Martha Alice Robens, reg. no. 25014/1962, registration district Burwood, 26 August 1962. An Ancestry-style summary record gives only “June 1962”; the registration is the better source and is followed here.

  12. 12

    Death notice

    Sydney Morning Herald, 27 August 1962 — naming the surviving siblings Archie, Rhoda, Will and Violet.

  13. 13

    Burial

    Cemetery records, Rookwood General Cemetery — where her parents and several of her brothers and sisters also lie.