Jabez Bunting Jeffries was the last of the five sons born in England and — but for the baby Elizabeth, who died on the passage — the last of the children born there; two more, Elizabeth Hall and Joshua, were born after the family reached Sydney. He was born at Clifton about 1833 and christened at the parish church of St Andrew there on 8 December that year, from Avon Square, his father entered, as in every Clifton record, as a carpenter.1 The register page is headed 1835, but its own dated entries all fall in November and December 1833, and the Layton’s bounty list four years later sets him down as “Jabez, 4” — an age an 1833 birth fits and an 1835 one does not.12 His names are the family’s Nonconformity worn on the surface: Jabez is a chapel name, and Jabez Bunting was the most powerful Wesleyan Methodist minister of the age. He was four or five when the measles ship came up the coast in January 1838, and he grew up in the family’s house in Surry Hills.2 Like his brother Archibald at Bathurst, he was put to the saddler’s trade.
Where the record next has him is South Australia. The gaol books that would shortly hold him enter his arrival in the colony three different ways — from Bristol, from Sydney, from Melbourne — but two of the three bring him to Adelaide out of the eastern colonies, which is to say from the life the family had begun at Sydney.5 He was a saddler, he could read and write, and he was a Wesleyan. On 19 January 1861 he married Ellen McGlynn at her mother’s house at Brompton, on the northern edge of Adelaide; she was Irish-born and about twenty-two, a daughter of Samuel McGlynn.3
It went wrong at once. By Ellen’s own account, given in evidence ten weeks later, “the curse of Othello” fell on her husband on the second day of the marriage and never left him.4 On a night in late March 1861 he came to his mother-in-law’s cottage after midnight, drunk and sure there was a man inside; he threw stones through the windows onto a bed where children were sleeping, and broke in. When Ellen fled through a window he ran her down in the road, drew her out of the chimney of an empty house where she had hidden, beat her senseless more than once on the way home, and there — the report is explicit — held a sword over her and threatened to make “mince meat” of her body.4 The Adelaide police court committed him for trial on two charges and refused bail; the gaol register takes him in as a saddler of twenty-five, and he served four months’ hard labour and a fine of six pounds twelve.45
He was back twice more. In July 1862 the same court fined him on three informations for a drunken assault at Bowden — on his mother-in-law again, and two other people — and gaoled him a month when he would not pay.6 The one child of the marriage, a son, had been born at Brompton on 11 June 1862, in the gap between that term and the next; the birth was registered simply as “Jabez,” for his father.7 In January 1863 he was gaoled a third time, the charge recorded flatly as “assaulting his wife Ellen at Brompton.”5 After that the Adelaide record of him stops.
The boy did not live. He died at Bowden on 15 March 1867, four years old, and the death was registered as Samuel Jabez Jeffries, son of Jabez — a small entry that sat for years in the South Australian index as a puzzle for this family, taken for the lost death of Samuel the emigrant grandfather, or of Jabez himself.8 It is neither: it is the child. Ellen stayed in South Australia. On 30 March 1885, at Robe on the south-east coast, she married John Collins; she died there, as Ellen Collins, on 5 June 1918, and was buried in the Robe cemetery.9 Jabez was by then long gone, and long remarried — while Ellen still lived, and with no divorce on the record.9
He had crossed to New South Wales, to the mountain border country of the Upper Murray. His obituaries credit him with fifty years in the district, which would put his arrival about 1874; an unclaimed letter waiting for “Jabez Jeffries” at Upper Araluen in 1882 may mark the goldfields road he took to get there.1013 He settled first at Ournie, on the Murray above Jingellic, and later a few miles off at Glenroy, and he raised a second and far larger family — its mother on no record yet found, though she died in 1919, “aged 75,” as the wife of Jabez Jeffries of Glenroy.1013 By 1887 a “third daughter” was marrying; by 1908 a “second youngest daughter”; the sons Alfred and one known only as “S. Jeffries” were grown men.10 In 1909, nearing eighty, he took up a thirty-acre lease of his own at parish Mate, “for residence and agriculture.”12 He died in the first week of November 1924, “one of the oldest pioneers of the Tumbarumba district,” about ninety-two — sixty years and a continent from the wreck of his first marriage.13